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So they chatted for a number of months before they met at Sydney Airport for the most exciting internet and international blind date. That was six years ago. Since then, K moved to Asia to be with W. They are now happily married together. Love did conquer all. K was visiting Sydney for the weekend. It is so nice to see someone get what they deserve. To see a couple (gay!) that are both in love with each other to the same degree. I can tell each other is still crazy about the other…and they actually realise how lucky it was for them to end together. Both wanted a life long partner and I think neither of them takes each other for granted. They know most people do not find a life partner..so they give thanks each day. K had to wait 37 years until he found W. He reckons we all have our timing and there is nothing else to do but wait and let it happen. You cannot rush love after all. He reckons I have a few more years to go until I find true love again. He’s right…I’m not there yet…still too much to do…moving…experiencing….and finding myself. 37 may be a good age to settle down.

HK Mature

They say there is a time of everything. A time for love, a time to cry, a time to laugh. Most of us are trying to hurry time up. When I was little, I couldn’t wait to be older. I wanted to drive, move out of home and start working. Now that I’m older, I want to move back home, quit my job and be without any responsibility. I wanted to drive at 16, wanted to have sex at 17 and counted the days until I moved out to college. Since I started dating I have been waiting to find love. I wanted now…now..now. I’m still a spoilt child. My friend K waited a long time for love. Like many of my friends, K was a catch. He had a great job, an amazing apartment, cooked and was very emotionally available. The issue with K like many nice single guys is that he spent too much time going after the wrong guys…guys that never appreciated him or realised what a gem he was. That was until he met W in a gay chat room. The only problem is W lived in the UK but was moving to Asia…still the 8 hour difference proved to be a barrier for dating.

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I had not caught up with Jenny for a while so there was a lot to catch up on! She told me about a couple who we both knew who recently broke up. Another one bites the dust! It seem these days no one can stay together. Jenny asked me if I thought I would have a long term relationship? I wanted to say yes. But the reality was probably not. I’ll probably never find a long..long term partner. Relationships these days last an average of seven years. And why should we expect relationships to last forever? Everything in our lives changes nowadays. We change hairstyles, homes, jobs, mobile phones, countries…nothing remains constant. We change what we like..our styles…I’m very different at 33 compared to 23. I’ll be more different at 43 and 53. Why should I expect someone to be with me for 20 years?

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There are very few couples that make it and stay happy in the long term. This applies for gays and straights. Yes, in the old days this was the norm. My grandparents were together for 62 years and they lived up to the vows of until death…they were together through sickness and in good and bad times. They were real life partners. Yes. I’d like that…but the chances of having that…are slim to none. Friendships and family can last forever but romantic love…as far as my experiences go…do not. I did not mean to depress Jenny or anyone else. I’m still a pathetic romantic…who believes love conquers all…but people come and go into your life all the time. The best thing to do is enjoy the present and the precious time. Life for the day instead of worrying about the lifetime.

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I admit I hold back in relationships. Sometimes the truth hurts. Sometimes it is hard to face the truth. I’m fat. I’m not attractive. I’m single. I’m lonely. Sometimes people do not want to hear the truth. Sometimes you have to tell people what they want to hear. “You look great in those jeans.” “Your ass does not look fat.” “Sex is great.” “Your penis is not small.” I’ve had a few occasions where I’ve lied about my feelings to avoid pain to other people. I may have faked interest in someone….talked up their sex skills or lied about how cute their boyfriend was…all in the name of protecting them. Sometimes TMI can be more hurtful than the truth. I only like chick flicks with happy endings. My friends tease me about that. I refuse to pay money to see depressing movies. I lead that type of life. I want a happy ending. I want long lasting love that you find in under 120 minutes. I believe that will happen to me. I lie to myself and think that Krispy Kream donuts are good for you. That I loose exercise by sitting on the couch. I thought people that loved you could not hurt you. It is all lies…but I like to pretend otherwise.